Don’t know where to begin when searching for the right gift to celebrate two lives intertwining? Here are some thoughts and ideas to help you choose the perfect wedding gift.
Getting creative
Many people want to give heirloom gifts to the bride and groom that will pass down through generations. Check the couple’s registry for specialty stores, such as La Bella Vita, that carry exclusive tableware and gifts not found in department stores. If this is your goal, look for signature pieces in the couple’s registry that are more artistic or have a sentimental significance to you and/or the couple. If you are purchasing a gift that isn’t on the registry, try to find something in the style of other gifts the couple wants, and make sure you include a gift receipt. Stores such as La Bella Vita have the ability to go the extra mile to make your gift special, such as having the artist sign your piece(s) for the happy couple.
The safe bet: Registry
One of the best things to do is to purchase a gift from the couple’s bridal registry. This will guarantee that your gift will be something practical, wanted, appreciated, and used by the happy couple. This is also the most convenient option for you as a guest, as you can usually purchase a gift by visiting the store, by phone, and sometimes online. Many stores, such as La Bella Vita, send your gift, beautifully gift-wrapped, directly to the couple. To find out where a couple is registered, you can ask a family member, check on their website, or speak directly to the bride and groom themselves. If you decide to buy an item from the registry, try, if possible, to purchase the item from the store at which they are registered. This way, there will be fewer chances of duplicate gifts, and the couple will be able to track your gift more easily.
Gift certificates
If you aren’t sure what to purchase as a gift, another option is to send the bride and groom a gift certificate from one of the stores at which they have registered. They can then see what items they still need when the wedding is complete. Money is also a happily accepted option.
How much to spend?
First and foremost, as long as your gift is heartfelt and thoughtful, it will be much appreciated. Now, if that isn’t a good enough answer for you, here are some other guidelines. Think about how much you are going to spend on all wedding gifts, and work backwards. Have you been invited to the engagement party? A bridal shower? You will want to spend at least 50% of your budget on the wedding gift, and split the difference on any other gifts you may be giving. Some experts say to guestimate the price-per-head that the wedding host is paying, and buy a comparable gift. On a budget? Only give what you can afford, and try not to go under $50 for a wedding present. The best advice we’ve heard is to think about your relationship to the couple, and spend accordingly.
How long do I have to purchase a gift?
It is traditionally acceptable to purchase wedding gifts up to a year after the wedding itself. However, a word of friendly advice: the earlier you purchase your gift, the better selection you will have, and the less likely you will be to forget!
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